Friday, April 15, 2016

Ellie in Paris and a few Vancouver tidbits...

Do you read Ellie O'Connell's blog Have Some Decorum?
She is an amazing woman who lives in Paris and writes a blog.
Witty, talented, creative, funny and her strength will surprise you as she bravely faces ALS head on.
Be warned that she does not mince words.

She has been living with and battling ALS for several years...it is a terribly debilitating disease and Ellie has enlightened and educated readers about the various challenges that she faces with this condition.

Quite recently her health has deteriorated...and the lovely and gracious Vintage Contessa who met Ellie when she visited Paris, has posted a couple of items for sale to help Ellie...
one of which is a Chanel handbag.

If you prefer to donate on a Go Fund Me Page her friend BFF Yolanda, wife of David Foster and one of the Real House Wives Of Beverly Hills has set one up here.

Ellie needs your support...and prayers.


On our recent trip to Vancouver we explored some new venues...
I though you might like to see a few snapshots.


Pottery Barn Kids window display had ballerinas and a tea party theme.


We always try to walk and browse the shops on South Granville.
Meinhardts, West Elm, Pottery Barn, Restoration Hardware, Williams Sonoma, Indigo,
Diane's Lingerie, Lords Shoes, Ming Woo Kitchen Shop, Anthropologie and many more...


Emma Bridgewater HUGE teapot for sale at the consignment shop Turnabout Home.


You would need to use your muscles to pour tea from this pot!

After perusing South Granville we walked towards Granville Island 
on our way we popped into a few shops


Granville Island Florists


Heather Ross is a Vancouver based artist and she has just released a new book
Natural Eclectic."
Her studio is a mix of her paintings and natural and vintage finds.
It is small but well worth a visit.


The Imported linen towels were very tempting...


Fullhouse is a large home decor warehouse that features mid century modern 
mixed with a few choice new items. 
I love this vintage Dansk ice bucket that they have used as a planter.


Kay Bojesen monkey 
larger than any of the other monkeys I have seen by Bojesen.




We walked through Granville Island and the market.


Ate a tasty lunch at SandBar restaurant before hopping on a little ferry to cross False Creek to Yaletown and walked back to our hotel.


We had a fun filled weekend with good friends, lots of walking and a wee bit of shopping.
The weather was fabulous and the views spectacular.

We are back into our usual routines...
with a lovely weekend away still fresh in our mind
which reminds us of why it is so important to take time off and get away
time to relax and to recharge our batteries 
explore something new and different
and enjoy the scenery

if you cannot travel far
go to a local event or peruse a new shop
visit an exhibition
walk in a different area of town
buy local produce from a farm market stand
have a coffee somewhere new
try something new
be bold
stretch yourself
try being a tourist in your own home town
Have Fun.
Carpe Diem

~ Be Well and Be Kind ~

Wednesday, April 13, 2016

France, French Food and Friends...

This month is the anniversary of my trip to Paris and the SW of France...
While recalling the details of my trip...I cannot help but smile.
I am so grateful that I had the opportunity to visit Paris.
It was a dream come true.


I looked at all the France travel snapshots that I have on my lap top...
and they brought tears of joy to my eyes.


The love locks now removed as they were causing the railings to break.


Notre Dame


Saint Germain Des Pres is where I stayed and it was a lovely neighbourhood for walking,
 shops, boutiques, cafes, bistros, boulangeries and markets.


This classic bookshop is popular with tourists and has been in business for many years.

My love for Paris is very much alive and while a future trip is not in the works
 I want to read a few books that are set in Paris.

"Armchair travel" can transport you if you use your imagination...
Looking for books and novels that are set in Paris online has been fun and I and have complied a substantial list.
Many are available at our local library and a handful are in stock at my favourite book shop, 
Ivy's on Oak Bay Avenue.


Auvillar France
this wee house is where our friends John and Cheryl live.
They are moving to France on a permanent basis and we went to Vancouver to say our goodbyes...


Cheryl is a very talented artist.
She had a sale and sold most of her paintings and all her supplies from her studio.
They have sold their boat, car and are selling or giving away most of their things.
This week they are finishing up the packing and will be flying off to France.


We snapped up one of Cheryl's paintings as soon as we heard that she was having a sale.
We will miss them dearly.


The weather was sunny and hot while we were in Vancouver.


We walked for many hours exploring the city.

I had a "bee in my bonnet"
looking for a sunshine yellow printed silk scarf 
to wear with my new navy and white polka dotted trench coat.
(and my sunny yellow walking shoes)
Shopping for a scarf proved difficult as the shops are not showing much yellow.

I might have found one at Hermes 
but thought I would be patient 
and look in the consignment and thrift shops for a vintage one.



Candles were an easy fix.
Holt Renfrew keep these lovely scented Diptyque candles stocked on their shelves.


Laduree opened on Robson and there are line ups out the door!



Macarons are a sweet indulgence and now that they are readily available 
one has no excuse not to enjoy them on a regular basis...
a wee bit of Paris has come to Canada!


We dined at Vij's at their new location on Cambie.
Vikram Vij was on hand to greet us and we savoured a delicious meal.


The Bistro Wagon Rouge is the tiny little French restaurant where we enjoyed a flavourful feast.
The bistro is very popular and they do not take reservations 
so they send their diners down the street to a distillery called The Odd Society 
to have a cocktail until the table is ready.

We spent the weekend walking, shopping and eating with our friends.


My current novel...almost finished.

My Paris Book List

The Hotel on the Place Vendome
Tilar J. Mazzeo

Lessons in French
Hilary Reyl

Books, Baguettes and BedBugs
Jeremy Mercer

I'll See You in Paris
Michelle Gable

A Moveable Feast
Ernest Hemingway

My Paris Dream
Kate Betts

Bonjour Tristesse
Francoise Sagan

Madame Bovary
Gustave Flaubert

The Flaneur
Edmund White

The Dud Avocado
Elaine Dundy

The Only Street in Paris: Rue de Martyrs
Elaine Scilini


I have read so many books on Paris but there are lots still to discover.
I have a favour to ask...
if you have read a book that is set in Paris that you would recommend  
please mention it by sending me an email or by writing a comment.

Merci Beaucoup

~ Be Well and Be Kind ~

Monday, April 11, 2016

Scarf tying tutorial...

I love the versatility of scarves.
They add so much colour to a simple outfit...
they can be worn with jeans and a tee shirt or an elegant basic black dress.


You can buy a designer scarf or opt for a vintage scarf.


They come in a variety of shapes and sizes.
One that I keep coming back to is the square scarf.


Hermes scarves are luxurious and their patterns are so beautiful.
 Their reputation and quality of workmanship is hard to beat.


In the previous post I showed you my newest thrift shop find...a bright preppy pink and green Echo silk square scarf...
I wore it several different ways and several readers asked how for a tutorial.

The best source that I have found is from The Mai Tai blog.
I have learned a lot from watching her videos and she has a lovely blog!

The Mai Tai Collection tutorial

I hope you have a great week and I will be back with some posts on our recent trip to Vancouver.


~ Be Well and Be Kind ~


Thursday, April 7, 2016

Enter the Preppy scarf...

The shades of Pink and Green in Nature have been popping up on my radar...
Spring time is such a beautiful season here in Victoria.
Flowering cherry and plum trees line the boulevards and gardens are bursting forth with blooms.








I walked with no particular route in mind 
the sun was shining
so I leisurely meandered along the streets 
weaving my way through town
until I found myself at the thrift shop.

I do not "need" anything right now so I just perused the racks...
until I spied this scarf, in new condition, with tags still attached.
You may know that I have a weakness for scarves!
They are small and do not take up much space and can be used to add a punch of colour to even the most basic of outfits...




Pink and Green Vintage Echo Silk Scarf

Here are a few of the scarf ties that I regularly wear.
I think it will go quite nicely with my new navy and white polka dot trench coat.





I'll know that I will be wearing it with my jeans and tees and black pants and crisp white shirt.
The pop of "preppy" colour makes me feel energized and happy.


I spied this wee bunny in a garden on my walk home...
it was munching the grass and seemed quite relaxed while I snapped a few photos.

Thank you for all the lovely comments and encouraging get well wishes that you have left on my blog. I really appreciate them and they have helped me immensely.

I have been catching up on some much needed sleep.
Three months of fitful sleep due to discomfort and pain have taken their toll.
The muscle relaxant that the specialist prescribed for me at bedtime has been amazing.
Two nights of restful slumber has helped me get my happy face back on!

Thank you for stopping by...

~ Be Well and Be Kind ~

Tuesday, April 5, 2016

Meeting a reader...with Mother who does not understand the word or concept of blogging!

Mother and I stood in line at Good Things Consignment in Oak Bay this afternoon
we were waiting to consign some of her cast offs...
my sister and I had been at her condo the evening prior and we tackled 2 closets, a cabinet and the buffet.
Several boxes were packed and I picked Mom up today to take her things...
it is a rare scene that has Mother de-cluttering...

I am known as the "de-clutter queen" in the family.
Mother and sister hang onto their "stuff."


Mom offered these three florals and I said yes...
they were always front and centre on the mantle or a table in our home when I was growing up.
I popped them into my cabinet as a "memory keeper."
My husband is not a fan of these but they take up a small amount of space.
I am trying to rationalize and justify this "emotional stuff"...
Mother is really letting go
not her usual style
and I am wary.

Am I reading too much into this change of behaviour?


Mom thought her teacups too many,
her crystal collection too full
 and her knick-knacks were just gathering dust...
true there is less housework with fewer things.


These tulips are blooming despite their leaves being munched by the local deer.


While waiting in line we met Elaine,
a blog reader who recognized me and said "do you write a blog? are you the hostess?"
She has recently relocated to Victoria and I was happy to make her acquaintance...but with my focus on Mother I was remiss and did not get her contact information so that we might meet again...so Elaine if you are reading please email me and I would love to meet you for coffee or tea sometime soon.

I went to meet the specialist this morning
she looked about 21 years old...
and confirmed the "frozen shoulder" diagnosis.
She has prescribed 3 cortisone shots to be administered by a radiologist a month apart and told me to continue my exercises and continue massage if it is helping.
It will be the better part of a year before I heal...

So patience is going to be utmost on my agenda.


I will  look closely at the beauty in my daily round

So dear readers please indulge me as I plan to capture all and sundry on my walks.
I might bore you to tears...


the only bleeding heart will be this floral representation


as I am fortifying
with great books 
while sipping hot tea 
counting my blessings

It could be worse...

Thank you for stopping by.

~ Be Well and Be Kind ~